Is This Recovery?
...there are other folks out there like these— pretending to sobriety yet still secretly using, and hoping to avoid the sort of trouble that haunted them in the past.
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Getting it, keeping it, growing it. Recovery is the most amazing thing ever- but it doesn’t “just happen” or even “just keep happening”.

by C. Scott McMillin | Dec 4, 2025 | People in Recovery | 0 |
...there are other folks out there like these— pretending to sobriety yet still secretly using, and hoping to avoid the sort of trouble that haunted them in the past.
by C. Scott McMillin | Nov 6, 2025 | People in Recovery | 0 |
by C. Scott McMillin | Jul 17, 2025 | People in Recovery | 0 |
by C. Scott McMillin | Aug 3, 2023 | People in Recovery | 0 |
by C. Scott McMillin | Dec 22, 2022 | People in Recovery | 0 |
by C. Scott McMillin | Jun 9, 2022 | People in Recovery | 0 |
by C. Scott McMillin | Jan 20, 2022 | Addiction Clinicians, People in Recovery | 0 |
“When you put a name to something, you gain a certain degree of power over it,” a psychologist told me, during a workshop on addictions.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Sep 9, 2021 | People in Recovery | 0 |
The reporters’ anxiety amplifies the natural tension of a story, turning everything into a crisis.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | May 27, 2021 | Addiction, People in Recovery | 0 |
Nonetheless, she managed to convince herself she was no longer addicted. At least long enough to start drinking again.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Feb 4, 2021 | People in Recovery | 0 |
I want to focus on the sheer persistence of that conditioned association between emotional pain and upset, and the desire to numb those feelings with chemicals.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Dec 21, 2020 | People in Recovery | 0 |
Consensus within the mental health field is that this year’s holiday season can’t help but be more stressful than in the past – due to the pandemic and the restrictions that accompany it.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Nov 5, 2020 | People in Recovery, Recovery | 0 |
For most recovering folks, establishing sobriety included a conscious, deliberate commitment to healthy involvement with others in recovery, accepting guidance and support instead of relying solely on one’s own resources.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Nov 14, 2019 | People in Recovery, Recovery | 0 |
I might have attributed it to the fabled ‘runner’s high’ had I not met so many dedicated runners who denied experiencing one–
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Sep 12, 2019 | People in Recovery | 0 |
What do you intend to prove, anyway, and to whom? That you can stay sober, or that you can drink again?
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Aug 29, 2019 | Families, People in Recovery | 0 |
Stress builds up beneath your awareness. Then it passes a certain level and suddenly, you’re really aware of it.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Aug 15, 2019 | People in Recovery, Recovery | 0 |
Suddenly we’re missing obvious warning signs, ignoring key markers of danger, or simply deciding to take a leap of faith at exactly the wrong moment.
Read Moreby C. Scott McMillin | Jun 13, 2019 | People in Recovery | 0 |
The benefits needn’t be long-lasting, just readily accessible when you discover you need them.
Read Moreby Kate Adermann | Apr 18, 2019 | People in Recovery | 0 |
I must take responsibility for the ways I acted and the things I did. Then, I must ask if there is anything I can do to make these mistakes right.
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